BITCHOLOGY
When I stand up for myself and my beliefs, they call me a bitch.
When I stand up for those I love, they call me a bitch.
When I speak my mind, think my own thoughts or do things my own way, they call me a bitch.
Being a bitch means I won’t compromise what’s in my heart.
It means I live my life MY way.
It means I won’t allow anyone to step on me.
When I refuse to tolerate injustice and speak against it, I am defined as a bitch.
The same thing happens when I take time for myself instead of being everyone’s maid, or when I act a little selfish.
It means I have the courage and strength to allow myself to be who I truly am and won’t become anyone else’s idea of what they think I “should” be.
I am outspoken, opinionated and determined.
I want what I want and there is nothing wrong with that!
So try to stomp on me, try to douse my inner flame, try to squash every ounce of beauty I hold within me.
You won’t succeed.
And if that makes me a bitch , so be it.
I embrace the title and am proud to bear it.
B = Babe
I = In
T = Total
C = Control of
H = Herself
B = Beautiful
I = Intelligent
T = Talented
C = Charming
H = Hell of a Woman
B = Beautiful
I = Individual
T = That
C = Can
H = Handle anything
* So Girls, a word to the wise…..the next time you’re called a BITCH, try not to take offence, instead, take it as a compliment! Be proud of your new found title! If you’ve got it, flaunt it baby!!! : )
You are pathetic.
Comment by indi — September 13, 2005 @ 4:48 pm
all very good. but why do you feel a need to justify yourself. may be you are not a bitch afterall?
Comment by sittingnut — September 14, 2005 @ 4:57 am
Thanks Indi for your constant enthusiasm, it just gives me a new lease to life! As for you ’sittingnut’, well you’re quite right, I’m not a Bitch (atleast most of the time!), neither am I trying to justify myself or Bitches around the world. I just read this and realised how true it was. No matter what you try to do, you’re a Bitch so, it’s basically a no win situation. So, all I’m saying is why get upset and bother about something that is just not worth getting worked up about!!!!
Comment by Tinks — September 14, 2005 @ 2:58 pm
Actually your last comment is quite interesting.. (that and the knee jerk reaction from a certain person - that surprised me).
Wonder what the male equivalent of Bitch is (i.e. a term woman randomly toss out at men whom they are idly pissed off at without any real cause)
I remember this really beautiful girl I knew once who once suddenly said “I bitch”. Caused me to stare at her with a frozen expression.
Took another split second for me to gather she meant it as a description, sort of as a ‘tag’ describing self perception of behavior.
I was afraid to answer her as she was over 6 feet tall and white (not sure what the caucasian bit has to do with anything..but combined with her height I felt intimidated..) Anyway she was just thinking aloud, but somehow I felt it was nice of her to share that particular insight with me.
I wasn’t sure what the correct response was but I’m sure I muttered something polite..
Oh. and I have a new blog. Visit me please. I could do with the company.
Comment by Null — January 10, 2006 @ 4:11 am
I’m 69 and im really tired of being told what to do and when and with whom.
I’m a bitch and proud of it to
Comment by faye — June 16, 2006 @ 9:15 pm